break up?

okey...bila one of ur friend break up..apa ko nak buat?
adakah ko akan cakap "xpe, banyak lagi lelaki kat dunia ni..."
atau pun " laaaa...relaks laa,bnyk lagi yang mahukan kau.."
or 'ini ujian tuhan..hadapi dengan tabah ya?"

hehe..ok..aku ada kawan dia baru break up...
dia sedang bersedih hati..tapi aku tak tahu macam mana nak pujuk dia..sebab?
aku ni memang tak berapa pandai nak pujuk orang la...

so..as a result...dia dengan kekecewaan dia..dan saya pula berlapang dada....
jahat juga la..tapi this is me kot...

to my dearest friend yang baru break,
saya pun pernah break so sy rasa ok jgk la kalau sy ckp cm ni kan?
memang kita rasa sedih kalau kita dibreak...
tapi tu sementara je..sepatutnya kita perlu bersyukur..sebab Allah tunjukkan kita awal-awal yg dia tu bukan jodoh untuk kit.. and Allah is a good planner..kalau bukan dengan dia may b Allah nak temukan kita dengan orang yang lebih baik..insyaAllah...

kalau ada jodoh, jauh mana pun kita dengan dia..Allah pasti akan dekatkan hati kita dengan dia..
just put it on Allah's power!

The Oldies~

Peace upon u guys...

as time pass..people change.. and the age also change day by day, month by month and year by year..

the young people will turn into old people..so do the way of thinking and their lifestyle..

ok why im talking thiss??? its nothing much actually..

since i know this old man..i wanna share his story here..let the name be anonymous.. 

let me describe his character..he is::

• energetic
• futuristic
• modern thought
• very talkative

unfortunately, he love to flirt around with girls by talking nonsense!...all story about 18 above...and he talk anything that he thinks right and want to.

girls may feel annoy towards him..even boys may have the same kind of feel. as for me, at the beginning i know him. i have the same feeling to. but as the time pass. i thnk bout it deeply. why am i supposed to treat my thinking like that? just because he act kinda lil bit annoying...

he is 60++..and he act might be different with us...which is 20++....obviously different. to be honest i think that he is awkward! always call girls name which have a good looking of face and body. my name? of coz not. im not that beauty to be called. but i really dont care and i feel happy for it.

can u imagine he'll call like this "Misha? what make i love to see u?"

girls out there? what will u think if somebody say like that to you?

you know what, since we have class with him twice a week, we dont go for his class at least for one class. and sometimes we even absent for both class...the reason is?we just feel..."it nothing we have if we attend the class, because he always talk nonsense!"

sorry sir for talking this way (guess u guys know what he is right?)...

but now, i've change my opinion towards u. i never try to understand what people need, what they behave, and what they want at that stage of age.

besides the things that i have listed above about his characteristic, i thing he is a nice man, a good husband, a tolerant father and a lovely grandfather. why i think like this?

ok at that time he ask us, what is the thing that people at his stage love the most and want most?

i replied "misha" the girl name that he always call. he shut and said, no its not. so he ask again and no one could answer  it. then he open his ipad, and shows his grandchild picture. oppsss...i never thought that he love his grandchild so much.

ok that is the first situation that change my view upon him. the second situation he said this. "bersatu kita teguh bercerai kita?," he left the question mark and i replied "bercerai kita khawin lagi," all my classmate laugh. but he just shut. he think for a second and said. " noo...actually man doesnt love to have that, man dont like divorcing, because without women, man will feel weak," oh, i was taken aback! and he continue " kalau isteri xde, sy jadi lemah, kalau sebelum ni dia kemas rumah dalam masa 5 minit je, then bila dia xda saya kemas rumah ambil masa 1 jam, sebab tu la saya akan rasa lemah kalau cerai,"

then, it change me....i realize he just love to see girls in blush when he call their name... an old people will change their behavior! they become more childish and need more attention actually. at that stage of age, they need all the response...because they know at that stage of age, they should prepare for the life here after.

he want to create a good memory with all those people around. so i decide to go to his class... for every class!! and u guys know what? he remember my father's name. hahaha...i feel funny actually....

so i decide to just grab what the good things he deliver! 

nobody is perfect! should remember bout this! people may have different thought and want. they did it may be for some reasons.dont question why he act that weird..but question to urself  how to change that? 

if we keep talking about people weaknesses people will be the same. 

dear sir, if u read what i have wrote here. apologize me for what i have said. as a human being i do love u as i respect and love the oldies! and most importantly, i do admire ur career, education level and achievement. have blessed from Allah always. amin!.