Isteri Vs Suami???

Barakallahu lakuma wa baraka
Alaikumaa wa jaama'a bainakuma fii khaiiir~~~~~~~~~~~~~

manakah tanggungjawab seorang lelaki???? sebelum kahwin bercinta nak rak..tapi selepas kahwin???memang itu fenomena yang biasa berlaku sejak akhir2 ini..ye lah lepas kahwin isteri ditinggal2...ada hati nak kahwin baru sedangkan nak beri nafkah kepada isteri pun tak mampu....kesian org pompuan...ada pulak yang dipaksa kahwin..tup2 dia ni tak minat dengan kaum pompuan..akibatnya si isteri juga yang menahan diri dan sabar dengan keadaan yang menimpa diri...

selepas menjadi raja sehari..3 hari pertama di jalani dengan penuh kebahagiaan....ya la yg haram sudah jadi hahal..(best jugak tu(>_<))....
tapi tiga bulan berikutnya bermula la kehidupan mencabar antara pasangan ini..yalah..semua sifat dan tabiat masing2 mula terdedah sedikit demi sedikit lebih2 lagi si isteri suda pun mula berbadan dua(biasanya laaa)...tapi apa pula terjadi kalau macam story bawah????

Kuala Lumpur, Apr 4 (ANI): A woman in Taiwan has revealed that she had to pay her husband about RM 10,000 to have sex with her.

According to the Nanyang Siang Pau, the woman, who is demanding a divorce from her husband, revealed to the municipal council in Taiwan that he had sex with her only three times in the last 10 years.

The woman, who brought along her 10-year-old daughter to the council, claimed that she paid to have sex with her husband on the third time, as she wanted to have a son.

"Not only does he not play his role as a husband, he also does not give us a monthly allowance. I have to support the family," the Star Online quoted the woman, who sells bean curd to support her family, as saying.

She said she wanted a divorce as she could not live with her husband anymore but he insisted she wait until their daughter turned 18.

"So I had to resort to this method to force him to divorce me," she added. (ANI)

seorang suami WAJIB memberi nafkah kepada isteri!..kalaunak minta bayar lg ape kes????nasib baik mereka ni ada anak..macam pompuan ni barang jualan yang perlu d beli kasih sayang ny..(tak tau lah kalau ada yang betul2 minta d beli...)..hurm.....

apa pun..pompuan ni ada jg yg desperate...ya lah..sampai suami org pun dia nak jgk..memang tak salah..tapi salah kalau menyebabkan penceraian antara pasangan bakal suaminya dan isteri pertama....??? DAN memang tidak dinafikan ada jg isteri yang curang or her behavior dissatisfied by her husbang..and so on...

so,everything depends on situation..Al-quran already state the role of both wife and husband...we as a human just need to practice it..insyaAllah..(all these things make me feel scared to get married after all....=(.....)

Barakallah

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(2X)
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(4X)
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Let's raise our hands and make du'a
Like the prophet taught us
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Say...say...say

(4X)
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Alaikumaa wa jaama'a bainakuma fii khaiiir

lagu Maher Zain ni mmg special utk mereka yang mendirikan rumah tangga...^^